“Aflame to be Hospitable” September
22, 2013
Romans 11:11-13
Stephens City UMC
Grace and peace to you
from God our Father and from the Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.
I.
When Jan and I
got married my plan had been that we would leave for our honeymoon in my 1967
Ford Mustang.
A. It was officially cool.
1. Unfortunately, two days before the wedding I didn’t
know that the fan blade in my car had developed a crack which resulted in a
piece of the fan blade breaking off while I was driving the car and seriously
damaging the radiator.
2. It could not be fixed in one day so that meant we had
to take Jan’s car – a light blue Volkswagen Beatle named Herbie.
3. At first things went well but when we were about 60
miles from Niagara Falls a light appeared on the dashboard.
4. The alternator had to be replaced and we couldn’t risk
going more than another 5-10 miles.
5. There was a repair shop that would be open the next
morning that could install a new alternator but we needed a motel room for the
night.
6. I canceled the motel reservations in Niagara Falls and
began seeking accommodations in the small town where the car was trying to die.
7. The motels I contacted said, “It’s 7:00 p.m. and
you’re looking for a motel room when you are within an hour of Niagara Falls.
Are you kidding?” And they would laugh.
8. Finally I found a motel with one room left – it was
called the Sunset Inn.
9. As we approached the motel Jan said to me, “Are those
bars on the window?”
10.
They were.
11.
The manager opened a little peek hole to speak
to me through the bars and somehow we exchanged the paperwork and the money and
the key.
12.
Jan and I quickly carried our stuff out of the
car, entered the room, locked the lock, and piled all the furniture against the
door.
13.
It wasn’t a real hospitable place because they
didn’t do the little things like placing a piece of chocolate on your pillow.
14.
However, we were secure because there were
bars on our window but as I recall neither of us slept that night.
15.
Fortunately, in the morning we did get the car
repaired and for Jan that set the standard for what it has meant to be married
to me.
B. Perhaps you can remember times in your life when you
did not experience gracious hospitality beyond paying for a motel room through
iron bars?
1. Have you ever had a door closed on your face or been
made to feel unwelcome?
2. Have you ever been treated like a third wheel or an
outsider?
3. No fun is it?
II.
Frequently that’s
the way it is in the world but the Apostle Paul didn’t want it to happen in
church.
A. Unfortunately, it can and it does.
1. It happened to my parents when they first retired and
moved from Ohio to the Outer Banks of North Carolina.
2. My mother had been a secretary at our home church and
so they went to visit the nearest United Methodist Church which was less than
10 minutes away.
3. My mother wanted to determine the welcome they would
receive so she had them sit in what was literally the middle of the church.
4. None one spoke to them except the pastor.
5. The next Sunday they returned, again sat in the very
middle of the church, and again no one spoke to them but the pastor.
6. The following Sunday they drove 35 minutes to the
United Methodist Church in Manteo.
7. Many people welcomed them and that church became their
church home where they worshipped every Sunday for 13-14 years even though it
meant a round trip of over one hour.
B. I would put forth that the difference between those
two churches was that the church in Manteo may not have realized it but they
were actually committed to fulfilling God’s will for their lives and for the
world, while the other church was committed to themselves.
1.
My suspicion is
that the difference between the two had to do with their practice of
spirituality.
2.
One church was
still aflame while in the other the flame had pretty much died out.
C. When Paul wrote his letter almost 2,000 years ago to
the church in Rome, which was known to be a pretty good church, he spoke pastorally
and encouraged them “Don’t burn out; keep yourselves fueled and aflame.”
(Romans 12:11)
1. A church leader who is echoing that encouragement at
the present time is our Bishop for the Virginia Annual Conference, Young Jin
Cho.
2. His analysis of the decline in worship attendance and
membership in the United Methodist Church and other denominations is that we’ve
burned out, that we have not kept ourselves fueled and aflame because we have
become more institutional than spiritual.
3. Like the Apostle Paul, Bishop Cho is calling for a
renewal and he believes the way forward is for Christians to commit themselves
to daily devotional practices, especially prayer.
4. Let me tell you what the Bishop and his wife do every
day and I can assure you that in particular his schedule is very busy, yet
despite that fact they do one hour of prayer and devotional reading every
morning and then every afternoon strive to spend one hour not speaking to God
but listening to God.
5. A second hour every day that is basically, “Lord, I’m
not going to speak for the next hour but during this hour I will listen to you.
Please speak to me now so your servant can hear.”
6. That practice is really opening one’s self up to being
committed to fulfilling God’s purpose for one’s life and in the world.
D. Bishop Cho gives testimony as to how this has
transformed him and the ministry he undertakes in Jesus’ name.
1.
Since it has had
that effect on him he wants others to know that blessing so he is determined to
spend his episcopacy in our Conference creating a culture of prayer.
2.
He has set a goal
of 10% of the clergy in the Virginia Annual Conference to engage in spiritual
disciplines for one hour each day.
3.
I have practiced
daily devotions since 1991 and over the years my morning devotions had averaged
about 30 minutes.
4.
Since I signed up
for the Bishop’s Covenant my daily time has lengthened to 45 minutes and on
occasion I’ve made an hour.
5.
I can tell you it
feels good.
6.
But the strength
of a local church is its’ laity not the clergy so Bishop Cho is asking churches
to become Prayer Covenant Congregations.
7.
Our Church
Council at our October meeting will be voting on becoming a Prayer Covenant
Church and if we decide to do this besides signing a document to turn in at our
Annual Charge Conference in November we will be committing to four things:
a. Having at least one weekly prayer group that will
include weekly prayers for the renewal and revival of our congregation, the
Virginia Annual Conference and The United Methodist Church.
b. Offer at least one class on prayer annually.
c. Participating in a Conference or District prayer
equipping event.
d. Moving toward at least 10% of the laity in this church
not only reading the Bible, reading devotional materials and praying daily but
growing to that being one hour in duration like I’m trying to grow.
8.
That can’t be a
“Sure, fill out the form” sort of vote.
9.
It’s got to be
we’re going to actually do it sort of vote.
10.
It’s about being committed to fulfilling God’s
purpose for my life and the world.
III.
I think if we
will do these spiritual disciplines then we will not burn out, but will keep
ourselves fueled and aflame.
A. In the Catch
evangelism series by Adam Hamilton that we are following for this series of
sermons Hamilton’s goal is to remind us as Christians that we have to go beyond
not having bars on our windows here at church.
1. We are to be welcoming and hospitable.
2. Moreover, just like the Apostle Paul said to the
church in Rome, “Be inventive in hospitality.”
3. In other words, not only be warm but creative – go the
second mile if need be.
4. But I think that will only happen if you believe that
to be one of God’s purposes for your life and for this church.
Jeff
then prays:
Dear
God, help us practice welcome and hospitality. Show us the places where we need
to change, and give us the courage and diligence to do what needs to be done.
Give us hearts to welcome every person who walks through our doors. Guide us to
be the church you intend us to be to fulfill your purposes for us in this
community and in the world. Amen.